World’s oldest living woman, 116, reveals a surprising secret to her long life

Born in 1909, Ethel Caterham has carried her calm defiance through a century of upheaval. From her childhood in rural England to working as an au pair in British India, she learned early to observe, adapt, and quietly choose her own path. She married army officer Norman Caterham, raised two daughters across postings in Hong Kong, Gibraltar, and Surrey, and even founded a nursery in Hong Kong, blending care, discipline, and play for children from different cultures.

She survived two World Wars, the loss of her husband in 1976, and, astonishingly, Covid-19 at 110. Through it all, her guiding principle stayed the same: “Never arguing with anyone. I listen and I do what I like.” Recognized by Guinness World Records and honored by King Charles III, she remains sharp, dignified, and gently stubborn. Ethel’s life suggests that true longevity may lie less in what we consume, and more in how fiercely – and peacefully – we choose to live.